People are born every day and the first thing they do is CRY. Crying for babies is a way for them to clear their lungs from any fluids and to inflate them with air for breathing. Crying is the first way for infants to bring themselves to the attention of those people watching them. When babies cry it is their way to signal, the they are in need food or changing or they are uncomfortable. Babies eventually grow up to be adults, they do not cry as often. As they grow they still express their dissatisfaction through nagging and general complaints. My mother is now in a nursing home because she is diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. When mom was well, she was at my father beck and call. Whatever my father wanted he would call out my mother's name. The tenants left did you clean the apartment for the new people? Where is my warm towel? Is the water ht for my bath? Are we packed? Are you ready we are leaving? I am home is the meal ready? People are never satisfied, too hot, too cold, too spicy, too long, too short, and host more things that we can complain. Everybody has their own cross to carry but int the same train of thought many people are looking to make everybody else's cross heavier by complaining extra about meaningless things.
I have been married quite a few years and have discovered that by just by walking away and not saying anything most times you win more (less is more).
There are so many personalities in this world that many times they clash. I do not understand why people buy convertible automobiles if the live in countries that it rains ninety five percent of the time. The roof leaks and water is coming in. I am getting wet. People are constantly looking for happiness but most of the time do not find it but they do get close, until it rains. I am always in favor of a hard top (less mechanical complications). People are never one hundred percent complete. Two people sit in a restaurant to have a meal and drinks, so they can socialize for a while. From the moment they sit down without cause, the whining and complaints begin. "My water needs refreshing, may I have some extra rolls, my fork fell, the soup is cold (you ordered vichyssoise - cold soup)". People go out that have never been to a luxury spot before and order complicated things to show their sophistication and they do not like their choices. Who do you think is going to pay for their blunder? The waiter, the bartender, the busboy any body that is near the idiot with the fat wallet that decided to be Mr Big. A real big shot never complains even if they are not satisfied. If things happen to their dislike once, they try once more. If things are still off then no more. No screaming, no yelling, no degrading just peace and quiet.
I am of the philosophy, if life gives you lemons, do not fret, just make lemonade. It is acceptable for infant to cry and whine but as we grow older what do not say or do is what makes us stronger. Many times I have been to top rated places where the service was slightly off but management recognized it and was invited again at no charge as an apology because of my demeanor. People have to understand that it is not the place that makes the atmosphere, just the company they are with.
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