Anger Management....

Anger management is a term used when people do not like what you have to say.  The term is also used when the tone you are using is no the way your peers expect it to be.  We live in a civilized world.  This means that any time we run into complicated situations, we should handle everything in cool calm and collected manner.  Loosing your demeanor will only make matters worse and you as a person with something to say will be disregarded.

In the modern world when someone says that they agree with you it is not always correct.  People choose to be politically correct in public to avoid conflict and be ostracized.  A term with Greek roots means to banish from the group.  

There are many variables controlling our lives and although we are not in a good mood everyday, we do have to portray ourselves as being in good spirits.  Remember the old adage "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me."    As long as you express yourself in a composed manner your place in the society you are a part of, will not be blemished.

In my many years of marriage I have discovered that nothing works better in winning an argument than silence.  There have been many a time that my wife wanted to make a point and she expected me to react with screaming and yelling, instead, I either do not answer or with quiet response "yes  dear".  

The larger the population become the more intricate personalities there are.  People are each on their own mental channel  and have their own agendas, to which many times conflict with others.  The solution is to be polite and in every body's own time try to pass their wants.

It is better to walk away from a potential argument. To stay would mean to continue to possibly an argument ant possibly a physical confrontation.  WALK AWAY!  BE CALM!

With a cool head and the rules of anger management people in society can coexist with little or no friction.  In a marriage or a cohabitation arrangement the only friction  that should be is the one between the sheets.  Couples should be able to solve their differences before they go to sleep.  Going to bed aggravated means the bad blood is carried to the next day or days, not healthy.  The concept of anger management is the you get farther with people when you are polite and charming than you are not.  

In the name of anger management people have learned to be evasive and waste time.  On the positive end arguments do not last long and marriages last longer.  In addition, friendships last longer because of mutual respect.  In addition people will live longer and their health will be better.

Give the concept of anger management a round of applause, more happy people, less divorce and less people being fired for silly reasons like fighting in the work place.