Every now and then there people in you circle of friends and acquaintances, the come to visit you and they do not want to leave. Not all people are the same with their people skills. If you top to visit a friend you have to know when the visit is over, you are not moving in. There are limits in life and everyone should theirs.
A typical date is about fours max. Unless things are going well and noon e minds. When you go depends on all the parties involved, if things to talk about start to run out then it is time to go. If the people you visited start putting on their pajamas that is a sign theta you have to go.
Limits know yours it will keep you happier and you friends will like you more and ask you over again. If people go out on a date and one starts to drink and forgets to stop or slow down he or she becomes a burden on the others. Nobody likes to see another person drunk out of their wits and swimming in a pool of puke. This would definitely mean no more dates with them.
Limits know yours it will keep you happier and you friends will like you more and ask you over again. If people go out on a date and one starts to drink and forgets to stop or slow down he or she becomes a burden on the others. Nobody likes to see another person drunk out of their wits and swimming in a pool of puke. This would definitely mean no more dates with them.
If you gone out you had several drinks you saw the movie or the play you later had a meal and some more drinks, it is time to go home (your own). Leave your friends be.
Today, I had a person visit me. He just wanted to say hello. He said his greeting and a little while later he was repeating himself. I had things to do and asked him to go unless he had something else to say. He started to say that I do not wan t him around and I am not a friend. For me these comments are out of place. This is a person that obviously has other problems and is looking to rub off their negative hora on someone else. It is not the time or the place. The song from the late great Ray Charles said it best, "Hit the road Jack and don't come back no more."
Today, I had a person visit me. He just wanted to say hello. He said his greeting and a little while later he was repeating himself. I had things to do and asked him to go unless he had something else to say. He started to say that I do not wan t him around and I am not a friend. For me these comments are out of place. This is a person that obviously has other problems and is looking to rub off their negative hora on someone else. It is not the time or the place. The song from the late great Ray Charles said it best, "Hit the road Jack and don't come back no more."
On the other hand you you want all your friend to be singing the song from Blondie, "Call Me", so know your limits! I like to talk and i like to listen but if you have nothing else to say do me a favor and let me go about my business. In these trying times it is good to have compassion for others but only to the point tolerated. The line many times is fine but every person should know not to cross it. The saying "good fences makes good friends", also applies here.
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