Worry about yourself before you look at your neighbor!

In life we are not alone.  Just like on the highway every action we take causes a reaction with the other people around us.  There are nearly seven billion people living on this earth and each person has a different personality and needs.  Nobody likes to be stressed with extra work.  Life is full of responsibilities like home, spouse, children, automobile and pet.
The burden of extra work for nothing is not wanted.  People and companies are constantly explaining what they will or not do for their time. Contracts and agreements are drawn up everyday to prevent misunderstanding and to outline responsibility for all parties involved.
Courts are also instituted to referee and rule on the validity of the various agreements. Lawyers and judges and juries are also involved in the extent of different agreements.
Men and women make agreements every moment of every day make agreements for a variety of things.  Initially the both say yes, later the woman reneges and the answer is no.  Now the man is left in the middle, with a dilemma "what to do?" If he goes with premonition of the answer being "yes", he is in for trouble.  On the other hand, if the man follows his routine with the answer possibly being "no", he is still in a hole  because she wants it that way.
All the Holy books in one way or another say that you should "do on to others as they do on to you" or "an eye for an eye".   We are all different and the same and our actions and reactions are equally different.  We should all be mindful of others and think before we act  on someone else's reaction.  Many times misunderstandings arise because we do not take a moment to think things out.  The results would much better for all involved if we all take second and think a moment.