Relax.....Don't be pushy.

     Every person, man or woman have a list of things they want to do in their lives.  Everyone goes about achieving their goals in different ways.  There are people that are always rushing and there are others that take their time when doing things.  
The people that rush to finish or achieve their goals tend to be careless and scare people around them.  Two men walk in to a bar to have a drink and meet some women.  One man approaches the ladies with a "hello my name is ______ would you like a drink".  The other man says, "what a cool pair of shoes you have are they _______? "bartender the lady would like a drink."  Forceful and cool are not the same thing.

Because you want someone or something does not mean that by being forceful you will have the results you want.

Women want to be married in a particular period of time and sometime push themselves on men because of their biological clock.  Men on the other hand get scared from the pushiness and turn away.  Parents have an idea of what their children should be in life and will push their children from all directions to follow a particular predisposed career this many times backfires because the children have something else on their minds.

Imposing your will on people many times backfires and you are left to be alone.  I am the type of person, that when i walk into a store I do not know what I want.  I am approached by a salesperson,  "hello may help I you?"."No! I am just looking."  There are time when I am not looking for anything except to pass the time.   If during this visit i buy anything I will end up returning my purchase for whatever reason.  If I am left alone to look around I will buy more and not have to return it.