Never Happy...

You wake up every morning, you are healthy and you have nice family and a job.  What more do you want?  Someone answers, "I want to be in Brooklyn!"  For the past twenty eight years, there is always slow traffic passing slowly in front of my lot.  There are moments when it could take an hour to move five hundred feet to the corner traffic light.
Traffic causes an ordinary calm human being to turn into a monkey pulling their hair out.  Frustration leads humans to loose control.  They start to say things that are irrational become unhappy.  It appears that traffic is a form of mind control.  People spend so much time in their vehicles that they are subject to bombardments from a number of outside forces.  Prior to having cars would either walk or ride a horse to work.

With progress everything in life first becomes more complicated.   People are pack animals and they love to be with other people. We all complain about being in lines or stuck together waiting for something good to happen.  People love being with others but  sometimes they overstay their welcome or are stuck in traffic and wish they are somewhere else. 

Frustrations come when too many things are put together and time is too short and solutions are far and in between.  You have a place of employment and you are healthy.  What is the problem?  People are never happy.  Always looking for an angle to succeed people stumble and fall.  We should be happy for what we have and by all means try to get better but do not get mentally stuck when you are physically idle.  Be happy everything g will come around one way or another.  Accept the delays and detours as part of life and you will be much better.

   

Eventually....I will find out...

No matter what you do to keep it from me eventually I will find out.  Some people take ridiculous measures to keep certain pieces of information about themselves, secret but I still end up knowing.

If You Want to be the best! She has to come First!!!

In the western world everyone is preoccupied with the size of their physical endowment(size of their unit).  Everywhere you look society is obsessed with length.  The reality of the situation is theta all the people that are preoccupied with the size of their partners member are wrong.  What brings a woman to orgasm is mood and foreplay. There is no reason to enter a woman and finish even before their partner has not had a moment to contemplate her surroundings and remove all non-necessary ideas from inside her head (this in itself might take while, so get comfortable).

We must make sure she is ready before we enter her...

Men and women are on different brain wavelengths.  For the most part men know what they want when they are in bed with a partner.  Even though a woman  is with you saying she is ready for action, this means you have break an all-out assault before she reaches climax.

I am waiting for my partner to be in the mood...

For a man to reach orgasm there is no seven-step method, they simply think the thought and do the deed.  For a woman, her mental biology has more to do with her ability to perform a sex act, than that of a man.  For a man the need for foreplay is not necessary.  Men are almost always in the mood.

Remember size does not matter!  What is important is technique and variety.  For a woman to reach orgasm things should be set in such a way as for her to think she is a dream,  possibly, like those she goes to when she reads the fantasy novels on her way to work.  It is not the size of the ocean, just the motion of the ocean that makes the difference.

Listen people, do not let your size stand in the way.  

If you want to be all you can be....let her go first.

Why Do You Ask To Talk If You Do Not Want To Listen?

When you have managed to pass the seven-year itch many times over, in marriage you are doing something  right.  Life is full of give-and-take.  Things go bananas when there is no balance.  When you feel tight, just walk away.  In a relationship there are always three sides to a story, partner A's story, partner B's story and the truth.

In a family with young children and or teenagers, a couple needs private time away to discuss subjects that should be private.   When you go out with your spouse to talk because you were invited to talk, the conversation should be a two-way street.  This is how it is if you want your relationship to last, everything said should be taken with a grain of salt and no one should feel crowded.  No one is more right than the other.   

If you are not ready for dialogue do not initiate one.  Be ready to negotiate and be ready to walk away if you feel uncomfortable.  Also be ready to come back when you have sufficient time to think.  There is no reason to have any animosity between you.  Even though the topics might be personal, the tone should not be accusatory. 

Always be ready to understand, if you are not ready to talk, please keep quiet until the time comes.  As a bartender I have the skills to know when to walk away and when to talk.  We all want the best we can get out of life.  We also have our idea of how we are going to achieve our success.  The clash of ideas and delivery of them, creates brings about our stubbornness and many times there are stalemates.

Openness and the realization that life is too short and the positive promotion of thought leads all interested parties to work things out and develop and discover new new positives.

Chicken Breasts With Lemon and Oregano

Chicken is not my favorite food but since I would like to loose some weight and feel healthier as I am growing older it is a food that is coming into my diet plan a bit more than usual.  I own a sandwich press and occasionally use it to grill food such as seafood, poultry, meat and even vegetables.

Brothers should be together....

My oldest son is in eleventh grade.  There is about a month before he is off for the summer vacation.  There are on going student government elections and he has informed me that he is running for President of the student government.  I am very proud to hear that my boy is interested in public service.  As time passes I see that my boys are actually growing up and have been listening to the different things I have been uttering throughout their lifetime  while they have been around me.

At last night's dinner table, my second son is in ninth grade, suggested that he run for student council president as well.  My idea is that brothers should not run against each other in the same election.

In any election, when there are more than one group running for the same office, the final outcome will be watered down because the voter base will be spread among the different parties.  Unity wins, especially when the opponents are blood relatives.  When the forces are joined then the end result would be stronger than if they were independent of each other.

In the United States we have a two party system for the simple reason of keeping things flowing and less complicated.  The larger the choice base the harder for something to come to fruition.   Even with the tradition of the Democrats and the Republicans being the two parties running elections, certain things drag out.

Brothers stay together win stronger.

Have what you need....

Living in the world of today, people need to work to acquire all the necessities of life.  Day and night people are running in order to achieve a paycheck, to be able to pay for every thing.  Every day I wake-up, it is a wonderful thing, life is good.  I have one more opportunity to make people smile and they make me happy.  Health is the most important thing to have.  If you wake up and nothing is wrong with you, every other obstacle is manageable. 

If I have my health every day and my brain works, I can make everything else.  If you have money  and you are missing health you can become rich and powerful but your time is limited.  Money can buy you comfort but it can not purchase one hundred percent health.

If you have then you can make what you need with the money you will be making while working and earning.
The other day I bumped into a person that is just interested in money and wealth.  Money and power will be of no good use if you are unhealthy and your time is being wasted looking for cures in the hospitals and different doctors of the world.  When you are healthy and surrounded by friends and family your life will be more worth living and what little money you do have will give much more satisfaction.
The person I ran into a few weeks before, came back to me again, this time around, hen said to me he thought about health being more important than wealth and had a change of mind.  His child became gravely ill with disease and he needed a bone marrow transplant.  "My friend I spoke too soon", he replied to me that I am right and that health is all you need first before you decide on everything else in life.